Though Gemini and Virgo both are governed by Mercury, they seldom make a good match. Their personalities are entirely different in ways which are more adverse than complimentary.
Virgos are real lovers who can only be approached through honest cultivation of their trust and interest. They are hardworking and subtle, sometimes shy and bookish as well. Gemini’s are party creatures. Constantly searching for excitement and new thrills, they entice everyone they meet with their wit and energy. In the case of Virgo, that enticement seldom lasts long.
Gemini’s are perfect lovers. The female Gemini’s are flirtatious and seductive by nature. She is a bit of a seductress, when she has can spare time to play the role. The male Gemini is gallant and debonair without being imperious. He expresses his fascination with grace and winning gestures, or in articulating manner which makes the object of his desire feel that she is attempting to win his heart.
Male Virgos generally find female Gemini’s capricious, unattainable, or dominating. The only way these two will get along is if an attraction overwhelms the Virgo and stimulates the curiosity of the Gemini. The first date is expected to be devastating. Virgo is immediately exhausted by Gemini’s quest for adventure, and Gemini looks at Virgo as an impossible mossy. Gemini wines, dines, and make merry, expecting to get the same demeanor or at least a partner with similar nature. Virgo sees all this as weird, suspects Gemini’s notions, and feels out of control.
If they are to be in each other company, both will have to review the way they approach love and relationships. Virgo female will have to let go a little, otherwise the curiosity with which she approaches love will exhaust and intimidate Gemini. She needs to come out of herself and make a virtual effort to keep Gemini’s interested. Gemini male, at the same time, will have to give up his rigidness on absolute perfection. He’ll have to accept Virgo’s need for reassurance and trustworthiness. He needs to learn to work so that he can meet Virgo on her own wavelength. In long term relationships, these two different signs can clash on a number of aspects. The conflict in their personalities gets more apparent as time goes on. They tend to lose love for and patience with each other, which can lead to nasty breakups where both are deeply shattered.
Both Gemini and Virgo are subtly manipulative. Gemini ensures that Virgo knows how much he cares and loves her, often clarifying it that they give the most time and intimacy in the relationship. This exercises a form of control and hope, which the other partner feels grateful to live up to. Virgo, on the other hand, can’t stop calling Gemini a bluff. Gemini feels uncared and unappreciated, which gives them a cause to move on.
On sexual front, the two are mismatched. Gemini is highly adventurous, in need of constant new experiments, and enamored with thrill. Virgo can’t always be the aggressive bedroom hot shot that Gemini craves for. Virgo often realizes that Gemini is more expert at the physical act than at emotional grounds and can become entirely frigid out of nervousness. Though Gemini may explain Virgo some expertise which will astonish future lovers, these two are not likely to retain any long-term satisfaction from each other.
In social arenas also the two clash. Gemini’s broad vertical of acquaintances confuse and exhaust Virgo, who feels deplete of the energy she mostly saves for close friends. Virgo may also feel dominated by all the other people in Gemini’s life, seeing her as only one among many. Gemini cannot accept Virgo’s unsocial nature or her tendency to spend quiet evenings at home. The two would have to understand and compromise to a great extent if they really want to make this relationship work.
Diverse career interests also create another conflict. Virgo believes the Gemini emphasis on play before work. Virgo may rightly realize that he is doing all of the work whereas Gemini is enjoying all of the fun. Gemini’s hate placed second to a career, and Virgo is of the same nature. They don’t understand why Virgos don’t leave work early, stop cleaning the house, governed by whim, or escape with them for a vacation.
Though nothing is impossible in love, Virgos and Gemini have a lot to compromise. If they manage it, they are likely to feel a deserved satisfaction of pride in their relationship, which will pamper both of their egos. However, it is more likely than their contact will be ephemeral and unfulfilling. Gemini will keep searching for his perfect twin and Virgo will look for someone more stable.